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The War Cry | OCTOBER 2015
W
hile many believe prob-
lematic sexual behavior has steadily
increased since the dawn of the
sexual revolution, it is only in recent
years that we have been able to more
fully comprehend the impact of these
behaviors on the formation of the
spiritual and psychological aspects of
personhood. Specifi cally, the emer-
gence of sexual addiction has forced
a conversation in Christian circles
about topics dismissed 20 years ago.
The landscape has changed with the advent of
more personalized technology and the privatiza-
tion of behavior. No longer is pornography pur-
chased at the drug store counter or gas station or
viewed on a VCR on the single television in the
house; rather, it is stored away in the hidden areas
of our cell phones, tablets and laptops, where its se-
crecy compounds the shame of its existence. We
must understand that in today's virtual world, por-
nography is a predator, stalking the far corners of
the internet for its prey. Even if we never seek it
out, the industry is working hard to find a way to
get it in front of us, from pop-up ads to spam email.
For the masses, it takes just one click to be swept
away in a flood of adrenaline, devouring countless
images in a mindless binge. The onslaught can
cause entrapment in an addictive cycle that leads
to a range of emotions that compete for control and
leaves the individual more and more isolated.
With enough repetition, the behaviors associ-
ated with acting out sexually become ritualized
and reflexive, and one manages one's emotional
state through sex. Thoughts, locations and behav-
iors, as well as the emotional state in which they
commonly occur, can become triggers that initiate
an urge to participate in the addictive behavior.
According to Dr. Mark Laaser of Faithful and
True Ministries, sexual struggles of an addictive
nature involve the meeting of a legitimate emo-
tional need through compulsive sexual behavior.
According to Dr. Pat Carnes, the grandfather of
the sexual addiction movement, sexual addiction
is considered a pathological relationship to a
mood-altering experience.
by
TODD BOWMAN
Reclaiming
Wholeness
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