me the time I need to tend to our other children. I can work on homework with our youngest and when our oldest comes home I am able to sit and talk about his day. At 6:15, when those bedroom doors come open and those sessions are over, the house is chaos. It took a while before I was able to balance it completely. We have to subtly integrate these things into our lifestyle so that the neurotypical kids know how to react with their brothers. It is tough. dren get what they need. They might not get as much as other children do. Collin went through a time in late grade school where he struggled. I had to spend spe- cific time with him and Noelle did, too. It is easier now. ....................... ent for sure. If you can trust God and believe that He is good, that His purposes are perfect, it allows you to see that there are pluses there that others don't have. It's a hard journey to make and it takes time. We are not finished with it nor will we ever be. It's a valuable road to travel because it helps in so many other areas. Major Noelle: It has also been acceptance as a Salva- tion Army officer. I did not go to college so that I could stay at home with disabled kids. I was able to make peace with that. When Phillip was diagnosed we told our leaders that as long as our child can get the help he needs we will go anywhere, do absolutely anything, even if it is not in our skill set. God will equip us. I was in limbo. I had forty hours a week of be- havioral therapy to sit in on and hand�over� hand learn how to do things with Phillip. If you want to trade lives for a few years or boys for a few days they pulled me aside and said that Phillip was far more than just an angry and con- fused child who didn't want to talk. They saw some- thing far deeper and gave us their full support emotionally and spiritually. They were heartbroken for us and with us. through having a child with a disability. We were in denial for a while because we weren't ready to face it. Our friends had a lot of empathy for us. They did not really understand the situation and they didn't really know what to say. It was a difficult thing for them. We felt supported. ....................... the Pasadena Tabernacle (TAB) Corps is Martin Hunt, who helps Philip be accountable. Martin is the Leader of the Tab Song- sters, and the Assistant Program Secretary for the Western Territory. Sergeant at the TAB Corps, encouraged Evan to enroll in the Jr. Soldier prep class, where he did well. |