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centuries ago. All we have to do, is ac-
knowledge that we are sinners, accept
Jesus' payment for our sins, and begin
living our lives to please Him. Won't you
do that today, friend?
"For God so loved the world that He gave
His one and only Son, that whoever believes
in Him shall not perish but have eternal life."
(John 3:16)
Dear Playing Safe:
It has been difficult to hear about some of
the violent acts committed by teens and
even children. The numerous surveys, stud-
ies, academic papers and clinical research
over the years reflect society's concern as
well. There is no single factor that has been
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Dear No:
This is a question of great importance. If
there is no understanding of what sin is,
there is no sense of our desperate spiritu-
al situation and need for help.
Basically, sin is disobedience to God. God
has given commands to us, throughout the
Bible, and established moral laws for our
good. When we choose to ignore or dis-
obey those laws, we offend God. We sin.
When we make such choices, we view
ourselves and our judgment as equal to
God. This, of course, was Satan's grave
mistake, which resulted in his ejection
from Heaven and sentence of eventual
destruction.
Sin is also the failure to live according
to the high standards of love for Him and
for one another. God is holy, and expects
us to live lives of holiness and purity. God
cannot be where sin is. Sin separates us
from God, hinders us from having a rela-
tionship with Him.
Adam and Eve, our first parents, chose
to disobey God in the Garden of Eden. He
told them not to eat from a certain tree.
And when given a chance to decide for
themselves, they chose to disobey God
and ate from the tree. The consequence of
that choice has doomed all of their de-
scendants (US !) to be born in a sinful
state. We can be the nicest, most loving
and giving people in the world. But in
God's eyes, we are sinners; our sinful state
separates us from Him. Unless a soul�sav-
ing payment is made for our sins, there is
no hope for us in this life or the next.
The great and wonderful news is that
God loves us so very much that He sent
His Son, Jesus Christ who came willingly
to make that soul�saving payment with
His very life when He died on the Cross
Dear Aunt Sally:
What is sin?
-- No Idea
The War Cry | September 1, 2012
Dear Aunt Sally:
I read a survey that claimed kids
who play violent video games are
50% more likely to commit violent
acts. Another survey says kids
commit violent acts because of a
lack of parenting, not from playing
violent video games. Which survey
do you think is more likely?
-- Playing Safe
documented as the general cause of
teen violence.
One theory does center around re-
peated exposure to violent media (TV
shows, movies, video games). Video
gaming is an ingrained part of adoles-
cent life today. While many teens view
gaming as a social affair, getting togeth-
er with friends to play, others are loners,
playing the violent games repeatedly.
One has to wonder at the affect on the
still developing mind of repeated expo-
sure to blood and gore, intense violence,
strong sexual content and use of drugs
in some of the most popular games.
Other factors that could lead to teen vio-
lence include children reared in spouse
abuse situations, repeating behaviors ob-
served in their parents. Some children who
have been traumatized themselves,
through emotional, physical or sexual
abuse, have been known to repeat those
behaviors toward others. Frustration due to
learning disorders, bullying, and in some
cases, not being taught the necessary cop-
ing skills by their parents have been factors.
I believe the single most important as-
pect in arresting the scourge of teen vio-
lence is parents who have a vibrant rela-
tionship with Jesus Christ, and view their
children as gifts from God. That is foun-
dational to supporting their children's
well�rounded development. And each
young person needs a vibrant relation-
ship with Christ as well, examining all
their behaviors to see if they measure
up to their stature in Christ.
There are programs, interventions,
medical and mental health staff, ideas
about keeping the child in school and in-
volved in extracurricular activities that
can be used in the battle to address teen
violence. But none come close to the pro-
found affect, influence and opportunity of
Christian parents who place a high priori-
ty on the upbringing of their children.
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